Rabbi Benzion Twerski Shlita on Let’s get Real with coach Menachem, Sunday September 6th.

When the Shofar Is Silent: How Do We Wake Up This Rosh Hashanah? What Is Hashem Asking From Us When There Is No Shofar to Awaken Us?

Video Recap: This video features a discussion between Coach Menachem and Rabbi Benzion Twerski Shlita regarding how to maintain spiritual connection and inspiration during Rosh Hashanah, particularly in years when the first day falls on Shabbos and the Shofar is not blown.

Adapting to Circumstances: Rabbi Twerski emphasizes that Hashem custom-tailors paths for individuals. A lack of Shofar does not mean a disconnection; rather, it is an invitation to find personal, private ways to awaken oneself.

Redefining Relationships: The discussion explores the balance of Malchus, which relates to Kingship and Awe, and Avinu, which relates to Fatherly love, in our relationship with Hashem. True love and admiration require an element of fear, not of punishment, but of the potential loss of that precious connection.

Dealing with Pain and Trauma: Addressing audience questions about personal tragedy and stress, the speakers highlight that expressing pain and hurt to Hashem is a valid and vital part of Avodah, or service. Trying to force a feeling of gratitude for everything when one is in deep mourning can be harmful; it is okay to sit with the pain and be honest with Hashem.

The Power of Teshuva: Rabbi Twerski reframes Teshuva not as a burdensome task, but as a reset button, a divine gift that allows for the removal of negative past experiences and a fresh start.

Throughout the program, Rabbi Twerski encourages viewers to let go of rigid, pre-imagined molds of how their spiritual practice should look, suggesting that authentic connection often happens when we accept where we truly are in our current circumstances.