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Opinion: The Structural Problem With Broad Relational Therapy

Mar 10, 2026·7 min read

Myth #1: A Therapy License Means Someone Proved It Works

Let’s start with a simple question most people never stop to ask. When you hear the words “licensed therapist,” what do you naturally assume? Most people assume something very reasonable. They assume that before someone was allowed to practice therapy professionally, serious authorities must have studied the methods being used. They assume someone tested the therapies, reviewed the results, and made sure the system actually heals emotional sickness in people and actually solves their emotional problems.

In other words, people assume the license means someone stands behind the effectiveness of the therapy itself.

That assumption feels logical. Broad relational therapy often deals with the most important parts of life — marriages, children, family conflicts, emotional suffering, and identity. People spend thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours talking to therapists. They open their private lives and allow another person’s interpretation to influence how they see their spouse, their parents, their children, and even themselves, most times with life-altering consequences.

So naturally people assume that if something with that amount of consequences carries professional authority, the system behind it must be extremely strong.

But when you actually examine the structure, something surprising appears.

A state therapy license does not prove per se effectiveness at all.
Not long-term effectiveness.
Not short-term effectiveness.
Not even minimal effectiveness. Absolutely no effectiveness at all.

And this is not hidden. The system simply never claimed to prove that.

A state therapy license proves only that the person completed a required route:

  • They finished an approved degree program.

  • They completed supervised training hours.

  • They passed a written exam.

  • They agreed to follow professional ethics/HIPAA rules.

That is all the state license itself proves.

The state license allows the person to use a protected professional title such as psychologist, clinical social worker, or marriage and family therapist. It also allows them to bill insurance companies or charge money under that professional designation.

But the state license does not mean the government tested the therapy model the person uses. It does not mean the government approved the psychological framework guiding the therapy. It does not mean anyone tracked whether the therapist’s clients improved.

The state authorizes the practitioner.
It does not validate the helpfulness of the modalities, the therapy, or the therapist.

And that distinction is almost never explained to the public.

The Hidden Reality: The License Mostly Controls Who Can Charge

There is another structural fact most people never hear. The license mainly regulates who is legally allowed to use a professional title to charge money for that license. That is it.

It regulates legal entry into the paid professional lane. It does not regulate the modalities or therapies themselves.

Legally, anyone can give advice, counsel, or guidance. Anyone can help a friend through emotional struggles. In that respect, nothing is added with a license. What the license controls is who can charge money for a protected professional credential when giving that very counsel or guidance.

This is completely different from medicine.

In medicine, you cannot perform a medical act without a license. Nor can you prescribe drugs, perform surgery, or practice medicine. The license means that the government stands behind the safety and effectiveness of the practices and medications. Medicine has regulatory mechanisms reviewing treatments, even though the license itself may not necessarily be doing that.

In therapy, the state government is not regulating the act of conversation at all. It is regulating the credential used to charge for it.

That tells you something about the structure.

The license is only a green light to enter the professional lane. It is not proof that the system with its modalities and therapies is what we may consider safe or whether they actually solve emotional problems.

Myth #2: Accreditation Means the System Was Scientifically Checked

If the government doesn’t test therapy methods, many people assume it must at least inspect the schools that teach them.

However, in reality, the government does not inspect therapy schools directly. Instead, it relies on something called accreditation.

Most people hear that word and assume it means some kind of scientific approval.

However, it does not.

Accreditation is done by private organizations, not the government. There are a few national accrediting bodies connected to different therapy professions such as psychology, social work, counseling, and marriage and family therapy, most of which were created by the profession itself over the past several decades.

These organizations are usually made up of psychology professors and professionals already working inside the universities. They review university programs to see whether those programs follow certain training standards. They look at things like course hours, subject areas, faculty credentials, supervision requirements, and administrative policies.

Accreditation bodies do not independently test whether the psychological theories or therapeutic modalities have actually been proven to solve people’s emotional problems.

Their role is to verify that universities are teaching the theories the psychology field already circulates and accepts — not to determine whether those theories truly work.

In other words, accreditation confirms that the system is teaching what the profession believes, not that those beliefs have been independently proven to produce real-world results.

It is essentially a formalization of the profession’s current teaching patterns, not a scientific verification of whether those ideas reliably heal people’s emotional problems.

In other words, accreditation evaluates the structure of the education. It checks whether the school follows the psychological theory and models of psychology.

It does not test whether the modalities and theories being taught actually work.

It does not measure whether graduates help clients improve.
It does not compare therapy models and eliminate ineffective ones.

Accreditation boards act mainly as the body that formalizes the training expectations of the universities’ psychology programs and ensures programs meet those standards.

It is not meant at all to be any sort of scientific validation of effectiveness.

It is simply a compliance stamp and a formalization stamp of the therapy field’s already accepted ideas, not a truth stamp. It does not add anything of its own to verify truth or effectiveness.

The people formalizing these standards often come from the same academic community that teaches the theories in graduate programs. Their role is essentially administrative: ensuring that university programs teach the profession’s accepted frameworks and that students receive supervised clinical experience before obtaining licenses.

The structure therefore works like this:

  • Academics in universities develop theories and therapeutic models.

  • Accreditation bodies verify that schools teach those models and provide proper training in them.

  • Licensing boards rely on those accredited programs to determine who qualifies for a license.

The verification is about formal education and professional standards, not about experimentally proving the truth of any of the therapy frameworks themselves.

That distinction becomes especially relevant when discussing broad relational therapy. Because these approaches deal with complex life issues — identity, family conflict, emotional narratives, meaning, and interpersonal interpretation — they are harder to test in controlled experiments, let alone in a way aligned with real life.

As a result, much of their authority comes from professional tradition and theoretical development within universities rather than from strong long-term outcome studies.

Accreditation bodies themselves describe their role only as evaluating educational structure and training standards, not as conducting independent verification of therapeutic effectiveness.

The central point is not that therapy never helps people, but that the public authority surrounding licensed therapy is often mistaken for proof that the system itself has already been independently tested and verified — when structurally, that verification never actually occurs.

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