Members of the Lakewood Chevra Kadisha were among more than 100 burial society leaders from across North America who gathered for an inaugural leadership conference focused on strengthening one of the most humble and quietly performed mitzvos.

The event, hosted by the Orthodox Union in partnership with the National Association of Chevra Kadisha (NASCK), brought together administrators and volunteers from more than 50 cities across 17 U.S. states and Canada. Participants represented a wide spectrum of Orthodox Jewish communities, including Chasidic, Yeshivish, Chabad, Sephardic and Modern Orthodox groups.

Chevra Kadisha members are responsible for preparing the deceased for burial in accordance with Jewish law, a role often described as “chesed shel emes,” or the truest form of kindness, because it is performed without expectation of recognition or reciprocation.

“The people who devote the most time and energy to serve the community often go unrecognized, by choice,” said Rabbi Ezra Sarna of the Orthodox Union, who helped organize the conference. “Bringing them together creates an opportunity to share expertise, build relationships and strengthen their work.”

Rabbi Elchonon Zohn, founder and president of NASCK and a leading authority on Jewish burial practices, said the gathering fostered a sense of unity among participants from communities both large and small.

“From smaller communities to major Torah centers, the energy and shared purpose were palpable,” Zohn said. “Everyone came to learn, grow and support one another in this sacred mission.”

The conference featured sessions on both religious law and practical challenges, including the technical aspects of ritual preparation, known as tahara, and how modern medical procedures can complicate that process. Other discussions focused on volunteer recruitment, coordination with medical examiners, and maintaining relationships with funeral homes.

Organizers said those relationships are particularly important, as Chevra Kadisha groups typically operate independently but rely on funeral homes to carry out their work.

“There is a responsibility to ensure families are cared for in accordance with their traditions and values,” said Rabbi Shmuel Fromowitz of NASCK. “Clear communication is critical.”

Attendees also participated in roundtable discussions and informal networking sessions, exchanging ideas and strategies shaped by the needs and regulations of their respective communities.

For Ari Wartelsky, who oversees the Bergen County Chevra Kadisha, the open exchange of ideas sparked by the networking sessions stood out as particularly valuable.

“While funeral home costs can be challenging, Chevros Kadisha depend on them to serve kehillos with dignity and care,” says Wartelsky, who presented on transporting the deceased in Bergen County, New Jersey. “At the same time, we must continue exploring ways to reduce the financial burden on families.”

Organizers expressed hope that the conference will become an ongoing effort to support and strengthen Chevra Kadisha organizations nationwide.