Chaya Schlanger, the almanah of Rabbi Eli Schlanger hy”d who was tragically killed in a terrorist attack in Bondi, Sydney, in December. Speaking publicly for the first time, Chaya and family members reflect on their grief, their Emunah, and the resilience of their community.

Chaya explains that she and her five children are determined to continue the charitable and community work R’ Eli championed. Her daughter shares that R’ Eli was not just a father but a best friend who taught them to care for and give to others.

For the family, Emunah is the primary mechanism for coping with the overwhelming loss. They emphasize that while they cannot explain the tragedy, they focus on being survivors rather than victims, choosing to ask what they can do next rather than “why”.

The family addresses the rise in anti-Semitism, noting its increase following the October 7 attacks. Their consistent motto, shared by R’ Eli, is that the response to anti-Semitism should never be to hide. Instead, one should be “more Jewish” and more proud of their identity.

The family discusses the need for greater government-provided security and expresses a belief that those who commit such crimes must face responsibility.

May the Neshamah of Reb Eli and all the other victims have an Aliyah and may the family continue receiving strength and Nechamos from above.