Are you avoiding your first mammogram because you’re afraid of the unknown?

Let’s talk about the mammo.

If you’ve never had one, you’d think—based on the stories—that it’s a medieval contraption dreamed up by someone who definitely never had to use it. And honestly? It kind of is. The machine is real, the angles are questionable, and it has earned a scary reputation. 

Here’s the big-sister truth: it’s really not that bad.

Full disclosure—I pushed mine off for a year and a half because I was a total scaredy cat. I built it up in my head, convinced it would be awful. And now, having actually done it, I can say with confidence: it was completely manageable. Before I walk you through what to expect, I need to say thank you to my real-life big sister who prepped me for this—and so many other life milestones. Every woman deserves a Brenda, I’m here to pass on her advice. 

Most women begin mammograms around 40 if they’re not pregnant or nursing. But for many of us—especially Ashkenazi Jewish women—family history or carrying the BRCA gene can change that timeline. That’s why being open with your OB and following your doctor’s guidance matters so much.

So let’s take the mystery out of it. Here’s exactly what it’s going to be like:

What to Expect (and how to make it easier)

1. Skip perfume and deodorant that day.

Anything scented or powdery can interfere with the images, so go fragrance-free.

2. Wear something easy.

You’ll be undressing from the waist up, so a dress or jumper is not ideal. A comfy zip-up or button-down makes things much simpler. 

⁠3. The setup is the longest part.

You’ll stand at the machine while the technician carefully positions your body. Think dental X-rays—the prep is actually more uncomfortable than the imaging itself.

4. Expect a little awkward posing.

Your hips and head might be angled in a way that feels like you’re about to wake up with a stiff neck, but it’s quick and almost painless.

5.⁠ ⁠Yes, it’s basically a panini press.

Once everything’s in place, you will feel very flat for a few seconds. That’s the most uncomfortable part. Totally manageable. If it makes you feel better, you can take two Advil about an hour beforehand, but I’ve done it without and was just fine.

Here’s the bottom line: knowledge is empowering. The fear usually comes from not knowing what to expect, and once you do, it feels a lot less daunting. I hope this helps take some of the stress out of your first mammogram and encourages you to book the appointment you may have been putting off.

You’ve got this. And if you’re scared? That’s okay too—channel it into praying for clear results

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* Read our very first Big Sister post The 6 Products Only a Big Sister Will Tell You About followed by this Teen Edition.

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